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You are the only one that has the special gift the world has been awaiting!  STOP hiding the Authentic You, SET HER FREE!!! Happiness is when there is joy in embracing your identity, your mindset, and relationships. Let the special gift called “You” brightly shine.

                  BECOME THE BEST VERSION OF YOU!!!

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Spiritual Recovery Coach Story

Experienced. Certified. Supportive.


Let Your Destiny Walk in Who You were Created to Be!

Specializing in Inner Healing and & Energy Cleansing coaching that brings Clarity and Meaning to a woman’s Identity, Personal and Business Brand by Unmasking the Identity, Transforming Relationships and Aligning to a Kingdom Mindset to bring Awareness to her Emotional, Mental, Spiritual climate so that she can be her BEST SELF to herself, her family, work environment and community.


Refuse being Life’s Victim and Create a Life of Wins, You are an Overcomer!!

Our passion is to provide a coaching methodology that inspires women to reach their divine nature to maintain peace, prosperity, and purpose while being in her best life and self ever. Our means is to Unmask that Hidden Identity, Transform those Relationships by setting constructive boundaries, and recreate a broken negative mindset to Kingdom Mindset.  We incorporate the word of GOD to help move her from her Current State to Desired State.


Ladies, It is OK to Find and Embrace your Uniqueness and your Purpose!!

Sisters it's Spiritual Recovery position to help the woman go from overwhelmed feelings of being stuck, depressed, & discouraged to Heal through means of Inner Healing and Energy Cleansing so that she can creates a lifestyle that is positive & beneficial to herself, her family, her business/career, and of course her community.

We focus on her

Identity – embracing uniqueness

Relationships – determine boundaries

Kingdom Mindset - elevating to constructive thinking


Be a Thermostat and Not a Thermometer!

Spiritual Recovery Coach   brings awareness to the Emotional Mental and Spiritual Temperature, so she allows herself to walk in Stability, Position, & Wealth.  Set your thermostat of life instead of being a life’s thermometer for everyone else to alter. 

Transitional Works

Inner Healing – healing from emotional trauma, pain, and/or disappointment

Energy Cleansing – raising negative to positive energy frequency/vibration

Drive Purpose with Clarity – find and understand your personal and your business brand (yours is unique)

Unmask Hidden Identity - Walking in your truth, knowing who you are

Aligning to a Positive Mindset – removing limiting belief systems

Relationship Management – setting positive foundational boundaries

Anger Management - knowing the triggers and controlling bad behaviors


                 Create Success for Others, Not Push a Systems designed for a few!

It is our core that our coaching practice facilitate packages that are distinctive for 1-1 coaching and advantageous for group coaching.  We provide a safe and confidential environment for our clients and staff. We also believe in the following

  • Embrace uniqueness - Psalm 139:14

  • Maintain humility - 1 Peter 5:6

  • Listen, then talk - James 1:19

  • Value Others - Proverbs 28:6

  • Assess and improve - James 1:5

  • Do good - Ephesians 2:10


Not your one-size fits all approach to finding YOU!

Coaching is about helping you find the wealth in you.  It is about challenging You, focus on your future by asking you questions, Help you be the Best You Possible. Support our clients through shifts, through the transformation, and assist in bringing forth their greatness, their brilliance, and their power.  As a coach, I partner with you to connect fully, assisting you to create a life based on your standards and successes.  Our coaching style used is to help you stay grounded during your chaos.  As a strong coach I will mirror back what you are saying, and help you devise a plan of what you want to be your reality.

The 3 Components of Coaching is

  1. Decision - Think of an area in your life you want to improve, change, places your hurting, problem, pressure point. We are going to look at the area and figure out the decision or actions you can take. Called the Decision or what you want to do

  2. Plan of Action- Like having a better relationship, steps on how to do it, like chronological steps.

  3. Management of the Plan of Action - accountability, help you stick to the plan, adjust the plan, never forcing but working with you.  

Why hire a life Coach

Positive behavior changes last longer

Increased creativity and flexibility

Improved performance

Making changes is enjoyable

Health and personal relationships improvement

Want to get unstuck

Move forward in life

Beyond the Past

Experience grief, loss, or a health diagnosis that has left you feeling like you are in the spin cycle of the wash

Heal your heart, but you are not sure how

Tired of hiding the “real you”, want to find her?

BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL  https://calendly.com/spiritualrecoverycoach/life-coach-discovery-call


About Me

Trusted Life Coach


Our mission is to help women maximize their authentic selves in both business and personal life. I am of Certified Ordained Life Coach Minister. I assist in bringing clarity, direction, and encouraging support to clients who want to overcome the feeling of being depressed, lost, or overwhelmed. Our goal is to help our clients live their best life by eliminating the gap from where she is now to her desired lifestyle.   It starts when she embraces her uniqueness, sets her boundaries, and cultivates a positive mindset.  We assist in helping women find success and balance in life without compromising their soul or self-worth.​

My name is Coach Bola. My past had been a path of feelings of being depressed, lost, and overwhelmed. Those who knew me back then, I appeared to be a happy-go-lucky kind of gal. In my quiet and alone time, I was so unhappy at times I didn’t think I could go on. At times I would want to be invisible and other times, I felt invisible.  To me, I did not matter in people's eyes. Does any of that pull at a chord in your heart?​

Moment of Reconciliation

My moment came one day when I was getting out of the shower. I glanced at myself in the mirror.  GOD said, “tell me who you are?"   Realizing GOD did not want to hear I am "wonderful and beautifully made,” He wanted the truth (yes, hearing the voice of GOD is no strange thing to me). I began to cry.  GOD said it is time to change those feelings.   GOD started His process of Deliverance. Yes, Deliverance, that word is not a taboo word or a bad word. The definition of Deliverance is The action of being rescued or set free. I know I needed it. I wanted to get out of those feeling of being sunken and defeated feeling. I wanted a life full of abundant love, peace, and happiness. I wanted to embrace who I am and bring excitement to living.​

My journey

In this process, I discover the things that made me passionate.  I started living Who I am created to be. I began acknowledging gifts that came naturally to me. My journey had to do with getting to the root of the issues. 

Coaching was something I did from a young age, and people commended my coaching abilities. Helping people know their Personal and Business brand was something I did from my 20 (I won’t put my age now! Lol).  It is second nature to me to help individuals. I have always been about bringing the best out in people.​


I have since gone on to becoming a Certified Ordained Life Coach Minister, gotten certifications as Destiny Coach/Mentor.   I completed programs in Relationship and Anger Management.  I have pursing certification as a Healing Touch Practitioner and Aromatherapy.  These are some of my qualifications that enable me to coach the way I do.  Of course, I use Holy Spirit to guide me in the area.  

Loving My Quest

My quest is to help as many women find and understand their passion, embrace their” true” Identity, remove the distorted mindset, and feel comfortable with their relationships.   Living a life that someone else carved out for you (parents, society, church) can be very unrewarding. Wearing someone else shoes is never as fulfilling as wearing the shoes designed for you.

My Now

I am a Certified Ordained Life Coach specializing in Inner Healing and Energy Cleansing. I assist women in overcoming feelings of being depressed, lost, or overwhelmed in exchange for finding and understanding their Personal and Business Brand by using Inner Healing and Energy Cleansing work to Unmask Hidden Identity, Transform Relationships, and Align to a Positive Mindset.​

I want women to know they can stop living someone else story and help them love who they are uniquely created to be and find passion in their purpose.     

Our Services
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A complimentary 15 minute  to talk about the possibility of working together.  Want to hear more about how I can transform your life? Contact me today to schedule a session.

Crossing the River

“Our life is what our thoughts make it”

Marcus Aurelius


                        Schedule a Session

Want to hear more about how I can transform your life? Contact me today to schedule a session.

Book a Discovery Call  https://calendly.com/spiritualrecoverycoach/life-coach-discovery-call


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What Clients Have Said


I have known Bola over thirty years.  I have kept her updated with my 
Personal Challenges.. many of time, just sharing what's going on in my life. specially with my children, then husband and job.. I  appreciate her ability to listen and discern my issues and present them in such a way - I can see my issues in a different perspective and with better understanding.. matter of fact, I have another issue that led me to seek counseling that I never would thought I need to seek help in.. 
I very much appreciate Bola's genuine and generous commitment to support me emotionally and mentally.. I  have no other friends that's so freely give of herself

Rosia  6/19/2019